I find it amazing that decisions can be such a huge deal to the person who they affect most and in general everybody else doesn't really care. To be even more bold I would go so far as to say it is a general comment on society that everybody is very self absorbed in their own lives and cares very little for those around them, but that is not the point of this post.From personal experience though, it might be a huge decision but I find that I never suddenly say this is what I have decided, slowly over time the one option just falls out the window and you are left with a decision. What is maybe a bit more scary is that sometimes I look back on these things and think, wow, what happened, did I really decide that, I don't particularly remember doing that. Naturally by that stage it is too late and I sort of have to make peace with it and move on, but somewhere in the back of my head it is floating around that I am not sure how I got to this point. Maybe it isn't a problem until I wake up being 40 with two kids- Crisis!Wow, I have just made a decision to be more decisive this year! Bring it on, I will choose and choose decisively!Be Decisive